What is Family Ministry?

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Family Ministry is a newer phrase used in church world to represent how a local church serves families. In the local church (in America at least), that has taken on a variety of looks over the years, but can mostly be broken up into 2 categories.

The Old Model

Churches took the perspective that church programs were the primary place where kids and students would grow their faith. Also, the various ministries designed to serve the family were never really grouped together from a strategic standpoint. Churches had (and still have) ministries for children, students, college-age, and maybe even something specific for marriages, but they’re not integrated.

In most churches these models have not worked well and tons of energy and resources are wasted in the process. Parents follow along and abdicate their responsibility to guide their children spiritually much like dropping them off at school or soccer practice expecting someone else handle it for them. If they only knew parents are more influential than schools in academic success as well.

Family Ministry Model


The phrase family ministry is typically used by churches today to represent the one, centralized effort to serve families with the gospel. A true family ministry involves:

  • A Priority on Family
    This sounds obvious, but old methods of serving families essentially prioritized church involvement. Family ministry recognizes that parents are ultimately responsible for the spiritual guidance of their children, regardless of where they are on their own faith journey. The church’s role is to support them in that effort. Parents have a much greater influence than churches and a true family ministry does not fight against that. Instead, it uses that influence wisely. How will we maximize the parent’s influence?
  • A  Comprehensive Strategy
    A strong family ministry knows where it wants to lead families and has created a plan to help them get there. That plan has to encompass all aspects of the family, but churches must balance the desire to meet all the needs of families with their limited time, talent and resources. How will everything work together?
  • A Point Leader
    One person has to lead the charge for creating and maintaining a healthy family ministry. Many churches won’t have someone on staff who is the “Family Minister”, but that title is not needed to lead a family ministry team. Often times churches assume that one point leader isn’t needed, and everyone will bear the burden. However, the truth is that if everyone is responsible, no one is. Who will lead the family ministry effort?
  • A Unified Team
    A strong family ministry requires a team of leaders to oversee the different ministries and environments designed to serve families. One person can’t do it alone. This team can be made up entirely of volunteers, staff, or a mix of both. Everyone on the team has to know they’re in it together, no silo thinking. Who will make up the family ministry team?

Each of those pieces is critical in creating a healthy family ministry in the local church. With that in mind, I would say:

Family ministry is the church and the family partnering together to help lead children and students to follow Jesus. 

It’s extremely simple to say but surprisingly difficult to create. We have worked hard to include the 4 things I mentioned above and have been incredibly blessed to learn from other churches and leaders who are out there paving the way towards this new (sort of)way of thinking.

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About the Author

Nick serves as the Children and Student Team Leader at Community Christian Church in Baltimore, MD. He and his amazing wife Jennifer have one son named Isaac. Nick is all about serving churches to help them reach their full potential.