More Children Than Ever in Your Church This Fall

Leadership / Outreach //

What if I told you that

  • More than likely you could increase the number of children attending your church substantially this fall?
  • You might very well be able to reach many more children for Christ than ever before this next fall?
  • You can change many children’s lives for the better?

You’re probably wondering how this could be possible. I mean you work very hard already. You may be thinking there is no way. Well, there is a way, but first let me start with a story in the Bible.

Luke 5:1-7 Cast your nets again

As you know in the story in Luke 5:1-7 the fishermen had been fishing all night and they were not successful in catching fish. Jesus told the fishermen to go back out in their boat and cast their nets again.

Thankfully the fishermen listened to Jesus and did what he proposed. When they listened and acted on what Jesus said they filled their nets so full the nets began to break.

There are children in every community that are feeling the effect of divorce. Church and children’s leaders might not realize these children are there because they are only looking in one place – inside their church walls.

For the majority of children of divorce you are not going to find them in the church. We’ve got to look outside the walls of our church. We must, “Put out into deep water, and let down the nets for a catch.” (Luke 5:4)

  • In the U.S. the average percentage of children living in singe parent homes is 35%. Are 1 in 3 children in your classes from a single parent home?
  • Some states, especially in the southern states, the percentage goes as high as 49%. That means 1 out 2 children in your church groups should be from a single parent home.
  • There is some research that shows only 42% of teens 14 through 18 years of age live in their original two-parent birth family.

What hope do all these children have if they aren’t exposed to Christian principals and to the love of the Lord?

Children are hard-wired at birth to believe in a loving God. When parents divorce, unless one of the parents continues to take the child to church, the child is helpless to attend on their own.

After a divorce many families stop attending their local church. This means another transition for the child. Not only do they lose their original family but they lose their church family also.

In the report “Does the Shape of Family Shape Faith” we read, “Children of divorce experience a disruption of the “domestic church” of their home. … With their parents, children pray at meals or bedtime, read stories, and ask questions about the nature of God and the meaning of life. In homes, they celebrate religious holidays and sacraments and participate in family traditions. When divorce affects families, these practices can be more difficult to maintain.”

  • We must cast our nets deeper.
  • Churches need to reach out to the children in single parent homes.
  • Jesus knows there are children of divorce in every community.
  • Jesus knows these children are hurting and desperate for kind and loving people of God to find them.
  • He also knows if we don’t reach them and do it quickly that the world will reach them.

Want to bring more children to your church? Reach out to the child of divorce and the children in single parent homes. You can find them in every community. Don’t rely on the church down the street to reach these children; they may be waiting for you to do it.





About the Author

Linda has been a children’s ministry director, developed DC4K (DivorceCare for Kids,, operated a therapeutic child care, and has extensive experience at successfully accommodating challenging behaviors. She currently serves as the DC4K Ambassador and Professional blogger at