In Depth In Ministry

It’s not a one man show

Volunteers //

Over the years I have learned the hard way that doing the job alone, just doesn’t work.  I should have listened to Three Dog Night.  They tried to teach me that “One Is The Loneliest Number That You’ll Ever Do”, but I just would not listen.  Being an avid football fan, I should have noticed that the teams with the most depth at key positions always win championships! (Roll Tide, Go Saints!) Moses also learned the hard way about doing the job alone.  In Exodus chapter 18 we are told about how Moses did everything in ministry by himself and it was causing problems on the job.  It was hard on the people, not good for Moses, and definitely was not good for his family.  Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, gave him some very wise advice and counsel.  Simply put, he was told to build depth!

. I know what you are thinking, “My volunteers can’t teach a class or do children’s ministry as well as I can.”  That may be true, but there was a time in your life when you could not minister as well as you can now.  Someone allowed you to sorry all over a group of kids and get better by doing the ministry hands on.  We must give our volunteers the same chance we were given to learn by doing.

If you are doing things that others can do, it will keep you from doing what only you can do.  When you are doing the things in ministry that only you can do that is when you will hear, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.”  Let’s take a look at the most famous biblical account of delegation.  It’s found in Acts 6 verses 1-4: “Now at this time while the disciples were increasing in number, a complaint arose on the part of the Hellenistic Jews against the native Hebrews, because their widows were being overlooked in the daily serving of bread.  And the Twelve summoned the congregation of the disciples and said, ‘It is not desirable for us to neglect the word of God in order to serve tables. But select from among you, brethren, seven men of good reputation, full of the Spirit and of wisdom, whom we may put in charge of this task.  But we will devote ourselves to prayer, and to the ministry of the word.’” Here we see it first hand–the disciples were being kept from doing what only they could do, by doing a project in ministry that others could do.  There are people in your church who need to be needed more than you need the help.  They will never be able to rise up and free you to do what only you can do and to accomplish what you have been put on this earth to accomplish if you continue to do most of the ministry as well as the majority of the oversight yourself.

The world would be in a mess without supervisors and coordinators to serve us in middle management positions. Why can’t we set up middle managers to help us? Phone calls and the returning of messages are some other projects that can be easily delegated to others.  Of course, I would recommend that you be slow to delegate the handling of difficult decisions to others.  Jethro warned Moses of this very thing in Exodus 18:21-22, ”You shall select out of all the people able men who fear God, men of truth, those who hate dishonest gain; and you shall place these over them, as leaders of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties and of tens.  And let them judge the people at all times; and let it be that every major dispute they will bring to you, but every minor dispute they themselves will judge.  So it will be easier for you, and they will bear the burden with you.”  You cannot delegate the responsibilities of building relationships with your key workers. This is a job that you must do.  Defining the vision, evaluation or fruit inspection, as well as being ultimately responsible for the success of the children’s ministry of your church are projects only the leader should do.


With these things in mind, let’s take a look at ten steps I use in effective delegation that will help you to develop depth in your volunteers and cause you to be a master of delegation and duplication.

1. Identify what you need to be doing.  Let’s take a look at Acts 6:2 one more time.  “And the Twelve summoned the congregation of the disciples ad said, ‘It is not desirable for us to neglect the word of God in order to serve tables.” The disciples were not too good to wait tables, but this project was keeping them from what they needed to be doing.  There are loads of good ideas and projects that keep us from doing the God-inspired and directed projects He has for us to do.  I have come to realize that it’s more important that I train, guide, manage and recruit than teach, sing, perform and be the only person that the children identify with.  The best thing I can do to grow is to allow others to be involved and not be a one man show.

2. Identify things others can do and let them do it.  Start with jobs you are doing that others could do if they were properly trained and coached.  Next, identify areas you could use a worker if people were no problem.  Don’t think that the same actions will bring different results because same actions always bring the same results.  “If you want what you have never had, you must be willing to do what you have never done!”  The same is true for every volunteer. You can’t build depth without allowing others to have playing time!

3. Qualify all workers.  The disciples didn’t turn this responsibility over to just anybody.  They found people from among them, people who were known.  There were requirements needed to do the job, like being full of the Spirit and being full of wisdom. Jethro also gave Moses requirements for workers in Exodus 18:21, ”You shall select out of all the people able men who fear God, men of truth, those who hate dishonest gain; and you shall place these over them, as leaders of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties and of tens.” A major rule of delegation is to qualify who you delegate responsibility to.  Are they capable and able?

4. Define exactly what you want done.  Everyone needs a job description.  Especially volunteers!  They also need a checklist to show them what you want them to do, as well as to provide a way to communicate with you what was done.  Remember to always do what is best for the children and not what is only best for adults.  Rotation doesn’t work in building volunteers through action.  Look at verse 22 of Exodus 18, “And let them judge the people at all times; and let it be that every major dispute they will bring to you, but every minor dispute they themselves will judge.  So it will be easier for you, and they will bear the burden with you.” This was not a once-a-month job but something that was an all-the-time commitment.

5. Train and teach those you recruit. Exodus 18:20 tells us to “Teach them the statutes and the law, and make known to them the way in which they are to walk, and the work they are to do.” You must model to others how you want it done.  Classes are good, but hands-on training is better.  Christians are the only people group I know that confuse the word “training” with verbal instruction.  Every secular job that offers training does so by verbal communication in addition to the hands-on training and mentoring.  You don’t have to be the only model.  I use my staff, master teachers and coordinators to help me train and equip others.  Everyone should be helping in the training and equipping process.

6. Push authority down!  It is extremely important that you always delegate authority along with responsibility.  One of the dumbest sayings I know is: “The buck stops here.” There are many places for the buck to stop when you give authority to others.  Those you delegate to cannot carry out the tasks that you desire without the authority.

7. Put your heart into the level of leadership under you.  A person cannot represent you well if they don’t have your heart.  You cannot put your heart into your volunteer leaders without making a commitment to spend time with them. Always take someone with you whenever you can.  Be quick to pass on what you know to someone else.  Allow those around you to ask questions. Establish excellent lines of communication.  Take advantage of every communication tool available.  I use meetings, newsletters, and e-mails.

8. Support and encourage those who help you.  It is imperative that you build a support structure around your volunteers. Our job is not to do all the work in children’s ministry but to train up others and prepare them for works of service.  In the same way, we must lead others by encouragement.  This is not as hard as you may think.

9. Make corrections and changes when necessary.  What if they quit?  Why be negative? If they quit they quit, but what if they change and become a super leader?  If it’s not broke don’t fix it; in other words don’t make changes just for the sake of change.  Every service can be better than the last one if you make changes and corrections each week.  I make a list each Sunday and spend my week correcting that list; then next week, I get to make a new list.

10. Always set the pace; be the leader.  Be the kind of person you would like to work for.  Dare to lead no matter what.  Give your volunteers an example to follow and a model worth imitating.


Delegation is not an option for those who want to succeed in ministry.  But to succeed you must take inventory of where you are.  Start small and go from there.  I try to recruit my team one worker at a time.  Ask yourself and your volunteers, “What do I need to do differently?” What volunteers do you see potential in?  Commit to coach volunteers and let them learn by doing and you’ll have depth to win championships!






About the Author

Jim Wideman is considered as an innovator, pioneer and one of the fathers of the modern children ministry movement. He is a speaker, teacher, author, leadership coach and ministry consultant with over 35 years of hands on experience in the local church, Jim has trained hundreds of thousands of children’s and student ministry leaders from all denominations and sizes of congregations around the world. In the 80’s The INCM awarded him with their “Ministry of Excellence Award”, in the 90’s Children’s Ministry Magazine name him one of the 10 Pioneers of the Decade, In 2010 “Children’s Ministry Magazine once again named him one of the “20 Top Influencers in Children’s Ministry, and in 2012 the INCM presented him with their first ever “Legacy Award” for his lifetime achievement in Children’s Ministry. Jim currently oversees all the Next Generation & Family Ministries-Birth through College at World Outreach Church in Murfreesboro, TN Jim and his amazing wife Julie, have two successful daughters, two handsome son-in-laws and the cutest grandson ever born!