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5 Common Misconceptions About Children’s Ministry

Ministries / The Church //

I have been on staff in the church world for quite some time now.  It always amazes me how many church leaders put a ton of energy into things that don’t really matter and they skip what does matter.  Children’s Ministry is one of the MOST integral parts of a church.  If you show me a healthy Children’s Ministry, I will show you a church that is functioning at their max potential…Show me an unhealthy Children’s Ministry and I will show you a church that is struggling.  Here are a list of the top 5 misconceptions church leaders have about Children’s Ministry:

  1. Kids don’t give much money so we shouldn’t give the program much money.  WRONG!  Kids might not give a lot of money but they have parents and grandparents who do.  Plus there are all those volunteers that love kids that give in your church.  Besides that, the kid that gives 25 cents in the offering probably gave way more than 10% of what they made…whats that say about their faith and their heart (which is what Jesus says really matters when you give…not the amount)
  2. Kids are smaller so they don’t need as much space as adults.  WRONG!  Kids are moving and active.  When adults come to church they sit in one seat during the majority of the service.  Kids move around, they play games, they go to different stations and groups.  In my estimation, kids need double to even triple the amount of space as an adult needs.
  3. Kids only represent 25% of our church or less.  WRONG AGAIN!  What you do for kids in your church has a much greater reach than only 25% (depending on your church).  figure a church of 400 that has 100 kids in it…studies show an average family of 4 or so right?  So 100 kids represents approximately 50 parents.  Now you are up to a reach of 150.  Add your volunteers into that mix (every other week serving is average in most churches)  at a 1:2 ratio you just added another 100 people…now you are up to 250.  That’s 50% of your attendance directly connected to kids.  Interesting huh?  Many churches this percentage is even higher depending on your culture and demographic.
  4. Children’s Ministry is childcare.  If you believe this then you shouldn’t be in ministry… Children are the most moldable, easy to develop and willing group in your church.  If you aren’t taking time to invest in them then you are missing one of the greatest opportunities God has given you.
  5. Children are the church of tomorrow.  You may make a statement like this to encourage your church to invest in children but your statement is incorrect…Children are the church of TODAY.  Saying that they are the church of tomorrow insinuates that there are things we should be investing in before we take on the needs of our children.

There is no department in your church that will draw more people than your Children’s Ministry.  There is also no department in your church that will cause people to leave or sue than your children’s ministry.  If kids haven’t been a priority in your churches space, budget, and staffing then you need to seriously rethink your strategy because kids are one of the most important assets to society today.  If you don’t reach them, someone else will.

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About the Author

Joe McAlpine is the Pastor of Share at Northbrook Church. Northbrook is a growing church just outside of Milwaukee WI. He has been in ministry for over a decade, serving in staff leadership at churches ranging in attendance from 500 to 7,000. Prior to his current ministry, Joe had the privilege of leading the children’s ministry at Northview Church, the 5th fastest growing and 85th largest church in America in 2013. In 2009 he created www.joemcalpine.com, a website dedicated to helping leaders in next generation ministry grow spiritually, relationally and organizationally. Joe has a passion to help young leaders of next generation, family based ministries grow into seasoned ministry professionals oftomorrow. Joe lives out his passion for next generation leaders by tapping into his experience as a husband of one, father of four, pastor and life long lover of of learning. Joe has been happily married to his wife Christy for longer than he can remember and has four children, Elijah, Selah, David, and Elisabeth. The McAlpines are originally from the Chicago area. In his spare time you can find him hanging with the family and connecting with as many kidmin people as he can!